Acceptance 2015

You have the right to be who you want to be…. You can be anything you want to be.

You have the right to bleach your skin

You have the right to tan your skin

You have the right to get a breast reduction

You have the right to enhance your ass

You have the right to cut off all of your hair

You have the right to wear weaves/wigs/dye your hair

You have the right to date/sleep with whoever you want to (male or female).

You have the right to wear what you want.

You have the right to pierce or get any part of your body tattooed.

You have the right to be a man or a woman…

You have all these rights and so many more!!!!! You have the right to live the way you want to live!

God gave you the free will to do whatever you want… So, who am I to judge?

I’m no saint.

But, one thing you have to understand is just because you have the right to do what you want, doesn’t mean it will be accepted.

I’m a black woman, who has dealt with racial slurs/treatment my whole life.

In no way have I accepted any racial bullshit slung my way, but I’ve accepted that people will die hating the color of my skin. Since there is a history of the LGBT community comparing their rights to those of black people (civil rights movement), I felt it was necessary to mention.

You’ll live a miserable life trying to get the world to accept you as you are, or who you decide to be. We all know this to be true, and yet we still act brand new. It’s hysterical that a cluster of people can remain silent when an innocent unknown child is shot dead (or assaulted) for no apparent reason, but they will defend a celebrity that has no clue they exist. I mean people were attacking others that didn’t agree with how someone chose to live their life. You can’t force who you are on others, and you can’t force your beliefs on others. It cuts both ways.

Moving forward, I don’t have anything against Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner, or anyone else on how they choose to live their life. If it doesn’t affect my life/my family/my funds/ or my love life, then we cool!

Sidebar: I was like, wow when I read about Rachel Dolezal though :/  

When it’s all said and done…. When our time here expires… The physical changes you made have nothing to do with your soul/spirit.

I love that saying I see on social media… “If they don’t know you personally, don’t take it personal”!

Live your life and spread as much love/knowledge around as you can. The world needs it. 

God is Love 

Christian Bess 

I’m Love is Love 

“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”

– Bob Marley 


I never saw this quote before in my life!  I needed to see it though. It put things in perspective for me 

I’m sharing this because I feel other women need to see this as well. 

Love is love even when it’s not perfect. 

I expected love to be a certain way but when I experienced love it was NOTHING like what it was in the movies… It was NOTHING like what people display on social media… The love I experienced was REAL! 

And I had never been more confused! 

My head couldn’t process the feelings my heart felt. 

My head was telling my heart I wasn’t worthy and my heart was like FUCK THAT! 

Love didn’t make it easy for me… Love showed me I wasn’t perfect either, but he loved me anyway. 

I’m in love now more than ever, because I swallowed my fears/pride and let love do its thing and it feels so good! 

Everything happens for a reason… The pain ain’t in vain! When you experience joy, there are no thoughts of the past plaguing your mind… No regrets… My past not only made me who I am today, it’s led me to experience what love truly feels like. My heart is filled with so much gratitude. 

I’ve silenced the storm within and found peace ❤️ 

Don’t let anyone steal your joy

Christian ❤️ 

SU Magazine 15th Birthday

I hope everyone had a wonderful month! I ended the month at SU (Supermodels Unlimited) Magazine’s 15th birthday party at Avalon Hollywood.  

The host for the night was pop music sensation Debbie Gibson. To help celebrate with a live performance was Tinashe, along with Denise Zavala on drums. Happy birthday SU Magazine!!!!

If you’re not familiar with SU Magazine, they are a publication that caters to the pageant and modeling industry.

Hosting the red carpet was Miss USA 2013 / Newlywed Erin Brady. There were a plethora of models that graced the red carpet before the festivities began. Everyone from Miss Teen USA 2013 to Miss San Fernando to Mrs Super Model to a few of America’s Next Top Models.

Drake Bell

Drake Bell – Nickelodeon’s “Drake & Josh”

Brad Carter

Brad Carter – Sons of Anarchy

Erin Brady Miss USA 2013

Erin Brady – Miss USA 2013

Miss San Fernando


ANTM walking the Catwalk


More Models


Debbie Gibson

Debbie Gibson



jon scudder

Shout out to Jon Scudder! He is so seasoned when it comes to covering the red carpet. LOL He had it on LOCK!

Shout out to Howard III and all the other bloggers/reporters/photographers I met… That shit was fun!

Thank you to the SU Magazine team, it was a pleasure!

It aint all roses, but it’s all LOVE!

Madam Bush